How do you know if a person really loves you or not?

 How do you know if a person really loves you or not?

There is no sure way to tell if someone loves you or not. But there are a few signs that you can understand what is on the mind of your loved one. Here are the signs to watch out for.

If you want to find out that the person you love also loves you, you should pay attention to his behaviour, what he says and what he does when you are with him. Although love means a different meaning to everyone, there are not many ways to say that the other person is really in love with you, just likes you, or that you blew his mind for a moment.

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Pay Attention to the Person's Behavior

1) Pay attention to whether their behaviour is natural when they are with you. Being a lover means being completely honest with the other person. When you are alone, if you see a side of that person that he has never shown in public, it may be love. For example, if your partner is very serious or kind in public, but shows a more stupid and confused side when alone, then it means that he really opens up to you and loves you.

If that person shares their deepest feelings with you and does not feel uncomfortable with this situation, it is love.

2) Pay attention to whether that person is happy with you. This should be the case even on a bad day. It is a sign of love that when he sees you on a terrible day, roses bloom on his face. If he is in love with you, seeing you, and hearing your voice will make him feel even a little- better.

The next time he is aggressive or has had a bad day, observe how he acts in your presence.

3) Pay attention to whether he cuts you or not. Although this is a little ridiculous, the next time you see him, study his face. Does he look at you in a stupid, piquant, confused and sweet way? You'll understand when you see that look. You can't always see this look — you can see it randomly in the morning or at dinner.

You can also catch him cutting you with the same expression

4) His mind may be in a confused mood when he is next to you. Love makes people's minds turn into a mess of air, light as a bird and laughing out of nowhere. If he behaves like this around you, it could be love. Does it seem like your loved one is moving, excited and on the verge of laughing for no reason when he is next to you? Then this could be love.

If what you are saying is a little funny, but he is lying on the floor laughing, he may suffer from love.

If he is nervous and agitated next to you, your presence may excite him.

5) Ask yourself, “Is he sad when I'm sad too?” ask the question. If you are emotionally depressed or in a bad state because you have a cold, this should bring out the person who loves you. If he really loves you, he will take some of your negative energy himself and he is also sorry because he wants you to feel good as soon as possible.

Although he doesn't have to be as sad as you, he is clearly influenced by your mood because he wants you to be happy.

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Pay Attention to What the Person Says

1) Pay attention to the fact that the two of you are talking about their common future. If he really loves you, the idea that you exist in his future is definitely on his mind, it's not something he's worried about or unsure about. If he's constantly talking about what you're going to do in the future or how you'll be together in one, two, or even ten years, he's probably in love with you.

If he is really committed, he wants to spend time with you forever. If he includes you in what he says when he talks about the future, there is a high probability that he really loves you.

If he's talking about who your children will look like, where you'll spend your retirement together, or where you should go on a honeymoon, he really loves you.

2) If he gives you meaningful compliments, pay attention to it. There's a difference between saying, “Your new hairstyle looks nice” and “You're managing to make me feel better no matter what.” Dec. If he makes compliments that really appreciate the important aspects of your character and personality, he is quite likely to like you. The person you love doesn't always have to shower you with compliments — it's the quality, not the quantity, that makes the difference.

3)Pay attention to whether every “I love you” sentence he says is meaningful or not. Remember that there is a big difference between ”I like you“ and ”I love you". Dec. If you're special to someone and you can feel it in their gaze, if they're demure and don't want anything from you, you're probably really special to them.

If he loves you irrefutably, he will say it not because he needs something or because it is the right thing to say, but out of nowhere, without waiting for a response.

4)Be careful that it opens up to you. If the person you love really loves you, he opens up to you and shares his thoughts, feelings, fears and expectations with you. If he tells you about his childhood, his biggest regrets, his most fearful moments, or the most romantic moments he wants to experience in the future, he is likely to love you because he is comfortable telling you almost everything.

If he says to you, ”I've never told anyone about this before," the chances are quite high that he has positive feelings for you.

5) Imagine that you are missed when you are separated. If you and your loved one are separated, but he is still texting you to express his longing, calling you or emailing you, it is because he cannot imagine his life without you. If you don't hear from him during your three-week vacation, it's not love.

Of course, he doesn't have to call every moment to indicate that he misses you.

6) Wait for your mistakes to be corrected. If he really loves you, he doesn't have an ideal image of you in his mind. If he really loves you, he won't bother to point it out to you when you make a mistake, say something unreasonable, or make the wrong move. Although he should not criticize you at every moment, sufficient, healthy amounts of criticism show that he really knows you, and accepts your mistakes as well as your best sides.

If he never fights with you or never criticizes you, you need to pay attention. Make sure that he really loves you, not your ideal image.

7) See if he really values your opinion. Someone who really loves you pays attention to your thoughts — from the shoes he just bought to the political picture in your country. Whether it's small or big issues, someone who really loves wants to get your advice and opinion. He may be shy when consulting your opinion, but he does it because he loves you.

Of course, he doesn't have to consult you on everything — he only consults on important issues.

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Pay Attention to What the Person Is Doing

1) Watch if he is listening to you. If he really loves you, he will not only open up to you, he will also listen to everyone of what you have to say — even if he has heard it all before. Although there is no one who approves of everything you say, he will be around to hear your thoughts. He will understand what you are saying, approve with looks and respond thoughtfully; he will not interrupt you and bring the subject to the subject he wants.

Being in love requires being able to listen. It's not always about talking.

2) See if it's always there for you. This also happens at inappropriate times. Of course, he's always there when you want to have a drink or want a nice meal, but what about when someone needs to drop you off at the airport or you need someone to walk your dog while you're sick? If he really loves you, he will be with you in your bad times as well as in your happy times.

If he is only with you when you are happy, carefree, or in high spirits, but he runs away when you are sad or otherwise, this is not love.

No matter what, being close to the person you love is included in love. To love a person fully means to accept all his positive and negative aspects and to be there for him on good days and bad days.

3) Consider the beautiful things that have been done for you. If he really loves you, he will fill up your tank while you are busy, do your shopping, or prepare soup for you while you are lying ill at home. These favours don't have to be constant or extravagant, but if he really loves you, he will want to do things that will make you smile and make your life easier.

True love is not only what you can take from the other person, but also what you can give to him.

If he really loves you, he will do nice things without you having to ask for them. It should be emphasized that you will need Decencies from time to time. If you have to ask for something nice every time, it may not be true love.

4) Pay attention to whether he wants to be with you at any moment. When you fall in love, a person wants to be around the one he loves constantly, although it is not always possible. If he really loves you, he will want to be around you. Although this does not mean that he will walk around you like your tail, he will want to see you at every possible opportunity.

5) Let him have some freedom. If they really love you, they will not only want to be with you all the time, but they will also know when they need to give you freedom and do your own things. If he wants to be with you every moment, it's not love, it's obsession. As love matures people, two people in a relationship need space to do their own thing.

If he wants to be with you every time he wakes up, this may be a sign of his lack of self-confidence.

6) Make sure that he really understands you. True love passes through understanding. Although it may sound ridiculous, he must really understand you in order to love you. If he can really understand your mood, if he knows what you want and doesn't want, and if he has an idea about what will make you happy without you noticing, this can be true love.

It's normal for you to still be a little mysterious to the other person — you don't have to be 100% understood, but most of the time he should be able to understand what's going on inside you.

7) See if he wants the best for you. Even if it is not the best for him, it must be true. If someone really loves you, he will understand that you are doing something for him, whether it is best for him or not, or he will notice that you are taking time out. If he really loves you, he should understand that you have to work on your career in marine biology on a remote island, or he will understand when you go home early for your exam instead of spending the night with him.

• If someone always wants the best for both of you, it means that they don't really understand your personal needs and desires.

8) Wait for support. If he really loves you, he won't just be with you during your fun times, but on the contrary, he'll be there to help you achieve your goals or move forward in your life. If he really loves you, he will be in the stands at your football match, he will be there to watch you defend your thesis, or he will take you to a job interview himself. Also, he will talk about the things that are important to you whenever you want.

• If he really loves you, he will support you on the way to your goals or pursue your interests, even if he has nothing to do.

Tips

• Do not underestimate anyone's feelings.

• When you impress someone, you will notice that they look at you differently and laugh a lot when you are around.

* Be respectful of their feelings; when someone likes you, your behaviour means a lot to them. Be polite.

• When some people don't talk to you, it doesn't mean that they don't like you; it can also mean that they are shy.

• Do not confuse intimacy with flirting, it may hurt you in the end.

• If you suspect that they love you, they will definitely say, “Do you like me?” don't ask. This can make the person more shy and may never want to meet.

• Do not leave more space than necessary. You may lose it completely.

• If your boyfriend/girlfriend seems anxious or worries about you constantly, ask yourself if it's because he thinks about you. Sometimes they do it not for themselves, but only for you.

Warnings

• This person may not love you anyway. This may not be because you did something wrong, but simply because he did not want to make a decision that would change his life.

• If you have shown little interest, certain troubles such as a possible boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse, or when you constantly say that you no longer want another relationship, this person may sacrifice the love between you. Dec.